2010年8月20日星期五

沙滩上的钢琴

Professional Communication 这个科目实在有趣
每次上这堂课前
我的心跳没有一次不加速
上完课时,没有一次不“huu~终于结束了”
这突然一起一落的心情
实在~
太棒了

今天4pm上完这堂课,
一个人静静地坐在Artz Canteen的最角落
看着蓝白的天空
等着6.30pm的到来~
去Piano Ensemble的Welcome Tea

我深深地吸一口气
此时此刻
不想看lecture note
不想再碰课本
不想再想:等一下我需要做些什么
想要把一些些的小小的烦恼
放一边去
看着这本书
《沙滩上的钢琴》

有一个故事,讲的是一座巨大的花岗岩骏马雕像。

一天,有人问雕刻家:

就靠一把小锤和凿子,你是如何雕刻出这样一件精美的艺术品?

雕刻家回答:

同往常一样,我也是从一块大石头开始雕刻的。

我的脑海中已经有了我的雕刻作品,

我只是把不属于我脑海的雕像的所有东西,

用小锤和凿子凿掉。

最后,我雕刻出来的骏马,就和我想象的完全一样。


我停了下来~
再往下看了看
这个故事的意思……

每一次开始进行一个项目,
或者承担领导者的任务时
我们希望获得怎么样的结果?
我们必须 “看见” 出色的、有效的结果是什么样的。
只有这样,
我们才能 “凿掉” 与我们愿景和目标不相符的东西
顺利达到成功的彼岸。

跟我脑海里浮现的画面是不一样的
也许是
最近思想和时间寄放在“迷”和“忙”之中
想到的东西,
也会联想到与最近的有关的事情

你的脑海中已经有了你未来理想的生活
你只需要把不应该属于在你脑海的理想生活的其他东西
用你的选择把它凿掉……
最后,你雕刻出来的画面,就会和你期待的完全一样~
被锁着的不开心的回忆,
为什么不要选择把它凿掉呢~

人做出最重要的一个选择,就是选择配偶。
要想婚姻幸福,一个人必须首先做出选择,
然后为之付出努力,
小至绝对忠诚,
大至为配偶“增加价值”。

为你的配偶增加价值 ^^
这容易吗?不容易
这值得吗?值得!

每一天读至少20mins的书
是很有用的哦~

Welcome Tea之后
看到Ivan,
他就拉我一起去看NUS Akido和Kendo练习…
他给我一个很搞笑的理由
然后我就跟着他走去了~
晚上本来要开会的
后来变成打篮球了~哈哈!
过后就庆祝Junior的生日~
大家很兴奋地欺负他几轮
他真可怜~ hoho!

明天SDE IFG Pool trial~
但是NUS没有场地让我练球
那么久没有摸Que了,
不知道明天会不会失水准呢?XD
有点担心不能代表SDE *__*

随机打,应该比较好hor?o(^_*)Y

2010年8月11日星期三

I have to WAKE UP!

I am in pessimistic mood recently
I seem have lost my direction in my world

I have Many interviews this week~
Bizcom : He asked me, what do you want to achieve by yourself at here? I stunned.
SANA : They asked me what CCA you have joined before and introduce yourself. I was came with amazement. And I cant answer them well in english.
CELC : I have to prepare myself better than the 2previous interviews for CCA committees

I have a sense of frustrated after these 2 interviews.
I don't want to undergo such feeling anymore~
However, I wish to do more things to get my year3 accommodation in NUS.
LEARN MORE ENGLISH !

It was only 2days from now after my school reopened.
I was slept during the lecture hour
I can't understand what are the lecturer teaching.
It is really OH MY GOD~
They came with Project Management Law and also Structural System~
They suppose to be the Interesting Subjects in my PFM course.
How come I do not appreciate it?
STUDY MORE BEFORE GOING TO LECTURE ROOM IN THE MORNING TIME!

For AMCISA :
Who will be the next VICE president for AMCISA? I am curious about it.
Who will be the next FOC comms for 2011? I have done nothing in order to prepare it.

I dream a lots of you these nights~
Can I know why ?
I wish to list down WHAT am I going to do in my Year2 life.
I should not forget to read 20mins book everyday~

Thank you some1 for sewing my bag's crevasse just now~
It is more comfortable to put my bottle inside the bag already~

My thinking is empty now~
I am dropped out from my ideal living style now~
I have to WAKE UP !

It can be a NICE DAY 2ml !

2010年8月3日星期二

Polish your personal Branding

Today is meaningful~
Because I gain an experience on
How to polish your personal Branding
Through this partnership~

原来人的身材有分成6种
而不相同的身材配搭不同种类的服装
可以让台下的你施展个人魅力~
实在太有趣了!

其中男人有3种body shapes
女人则有多另外3种
男人:Ruler shapes, Egg shapes, Cone shapes
女人:Hour glass shape, figure"8" shapes, spoon shapes

要怎么看自己是什么shapes的叻?
很简单:For male,
If your shoulders are equivalent to your Hips,
you are considered Ruler shape;
If your shoulders are shorter than your Hips,
you are considered Egg shape; (Minority people)
If your shoulders are larger than your Hips,
you are considered Cone shape; (Average people)

For female,
If you are high hips, you are considered Hour glass shape or Figure "8" shape.
If you are low hips, you are considered Spoon shape.
The female speaker differentiate the body shape of somebody
by asking the female to imagine the scene
when she gives her bf a hug.
If the boy can put on her waist comfortably, she is considered Figure "8" shape.

As a special message for female,
Man do not look at you, but scan on you.

For Ruler or Cone body shape people
Pants: you are advised to wear on airline pants,nicer ~
For Hour glass shape people- Waist belt : put lower abit
For Spoon shape people- Waist belt : put higher abit

just remembered : You are what you attract~

Haircut style :
If your hair can let people see your forehead
you are selling your brain
If your hair cant let people see your forehead,by covering it
you are selling your face

For the blazer manners of men,
When you sitted, you have to unbuttoned all pins.
When you are stood up, you cannot unbuttoned all already.

For 3pins:
the 1st button is
SOMETIMES
buttoned or unbuttoned.
the 2nd button is ALWAYS buttoned.
the 3rd button is NEVER buttoned.
For 2pins:
the 1st button is ALWAYS buttoned.
the 2nd button is SOMETIME unbuttoned.

The tie pin is merely put on the 3rd button of the shirt.
The 衬衫's pocket of men always 1 pen only which is needed to 高贵一点点~

If your 衬衫 is pictured, you have to match it with PLAIN tie.
And vice versa.
If your skin colour is darker, you are advised to match your服装 with lighter colour.
If your skin colour is paler, you are advised to match your服装 with slightly darker colour.

Thats all for my sharing on what have i learnt!
Yahooo~ Next time when come back to KL,
Seek the chance to attend it again. XD

Luckily I have still have the booklet of today profile~

2010年8月2日星期一

August Achiever Rally

He is an absolutely fantastic leader in this business.
Emerald direct ~ JUSTIN HAU !

你人生的价值到底值多少钱?
如果你目前的收入是RM2000,每个月工作26天,
一天10小时,
那么你的价值就是每一个小时 RM7.6.

实力就是尊严
选对导师,智慧一生;
选对环境,快乐一生;
选对朋友,幸福一生;
选对机会,成就一生!

你可以在这个事业里,
以最快的途径和最短的时间完成你的少年梦想
透过学习改变自己,
透过改变影响别人。

人生有4个难:
~ 认知难 ~ 不知道自己有什么根两, 所谓少年得志,语无伦次
~ 放下难 ~ 一旦不能放下自己的身份/ 背景,思想就不能前进了
~ 决定难 ~ 要就要,不要就不要,不需要很多时间来考虑一个决定
~ 坚持难 ~ 要记得:再苦也不会苦一辈子!

过去,现在,未来
过去的想法、做法、活法,此为“因”
现在拥有的生活,此为“果”
过去的事情不能改变了,
但是你可以改变你现在的想法、做法、活法
换一个美好的未来

如果你想成为千万富翁,你就必须跟随亿万富翁学习
如果你想成为百万富翁,你就必须跟随千万富翁学习
穷人是帮不到穷人
只有富人才能帮到穷人

人生有三悔:
遇良师不学,
遇良友不交,
遇良机不握。

成功只需要一个理由
要失败需要千千万万个理由
我喜欢Justin,因为他懂得引导他人找到理由发展属于自己的事业~

工作很忙,没有时间
不做这门事业,你哪还会有时间?
工作很忙,没有钱
不做这门事业,你哪还会有钱?

肢体的残障不可怕,
思想的残障才可怕;

为什么父母有能力养大和照顾9个孩子,
但是9个孩子长大了却没有能力照顾2个父母呢?

思想决定一切
爱跟相信是全世界最大的力量
给朋友最好的是机会
给自己最好的是成就
给父母最好的是荣耀!

这个是我最难忘的一次Achiever Rally~